Officially I’m a graduate now,
after getting many congratulations on clearing my successful degree, I don’t feel any honour in getting the tag of an educated person in the village but one thing is for sure I feel the pressure of being unemployed.
6th has so much importance for me. Clearing it was so important because to continue my studies this semester must be cleared. So I was so happy to have cleared this semester and to get the overall cleared result.
In this letter, I’ll conclude all the learning and life lessons which I gathered in 3 3-year period. Many of you starting it now, so here is a free 3 years of experience under 1000 words. if you need more, then reach out to me.
today’s glance:
- You must go to a good college.
because you’ll not get that experience from somewhere else.
Also, you’ll learn a lot of life skills. like facing the pressure of continuous exams, how to introduce yourself to people, how to talk, how to flirt etc
- College is a distraction so use it well
It’ll keep you busy and put the block into your thinking. After 3 years you’ll be free and you will find yourself lost if you don’t use it well.
- have fun, but this too shall pass
don’t pressurize yourself, have fun with it and do hard work.
Primary goal
Come to college with clarity.
college is just like the lane, where you are walking. so don’t just only walk, after every semester take a pause and ask yourself where need to work and where I’m going.
Most of you don’t know it until the degree is in your hand. So in those 3 years keep in mind that you are heading toward something and you have to find it.
your primary goal as a college student is to improve yourself. keep in mind you are not children anymore. You have to take care of yourself by yourself.
Focus on your carer and find things where you want to spend your whole life.
start working on the things which you like along with your studies.
Don’t skip studies. Give 90% to it.
Build wide interest, and have fun with them.
Don’t limit yourself to only academic studies, there are many other things which are going to help in life.
your primary goal is to grow yourself in every way.
be good, fuck passion
Be so good at something. fuck passion
so many of the students waste their life in waiting for the passion’s birth.
Passion is not born it is built.
so instead of wasting your time in scrolling, start working on something and spend tons of hours in it. You’ll automatically start finding the love in it.
at least give it a try. stop scrolling.
If you are obsessed with finding the passion, then start working on something madly.
Pick something randomly and start working on it. You’ll automatically see the magic. This is how I do the writing stuff.
Pick something which is available to you. Focus fully on it side by side and become so good.
the problem is not with studies, the problem is you don’t spend too much time on it. once you spend months studying, you’ll fall in love with it.
After crossing the edge is the passion.
I hate writing why? because I don’t know how to write.
but the more time I spend learning, the more I fall in love with it. I still hate it because there is so much to learn about it.
Authority;
Build your name in something. Do something so that people will know you from that in college.
your 20s are not for chill, it is for making your life, but don’t forget to have fun along the way.
During college time, there is so much spare time. So why waste in scrolling or prom date? Why not spend it learning something new like studying books on self-development or reading books on fitness or learning skills of editing or photography bla bla?
While in college try to build your name in one thing, it can be studies, art, speaking, writing, editing, or calligraphy.
learn something for which people are ready to pay.
friendship
You need friends, whether you are an introvert or an extrovert.
You don’t need only friends, you need a friend group in college.
In college/school, students make friends groups which are their identity by default.
You are identified by your friends. So choose it well.
Making friends has so many benefits:
They help you in your studies if they are good at it…
They will help you in excelling your career in future.
They open the opportunity for you.
By that circle, you meet new people and maybe in case, you’ll find your soul mate. haha
Most importantly they teach you how to be vulnerable, how to be humorous, and how not to take jokes seriously.
Learn
learn Life skills. Your clock is ticking so make your time valuable.
Find all insecurities in yourself, look inside of yourself. work on all of them.
if you don’t know how to approach the woman? learn it
if you don’t know how to manage time, and finances? learn it
if you don’t know how to speak, or write in English? learn it
if you are addicted to something? study it and help others also.
It’s okay if you don’t know the basics thing. learn it and take the insecurity out of you.
Fitness
Get in shape, build the muscles, and study the body.
join the gym as soon as possible and fuck the diet.
First, join the gym. then focus on building the body.
